watch out for the people pleasers!

do you ever wonder why you do things sometimes? i'm talking about the dreaded chore or favor you do because you fear feeling guilty. not because it's out of the goodness of your heart or because you desire to serve them, but simply out of "fear". why is that i am so pressed to being a "people pleaser"? how do you get out of that mode and simply "do" because you want to and walk away whenever you desire to.... without guilt? does that day ever come? being a people pleaser can be a lot of hard work. it's a job in itself. i need to lighten the load!